Rumors.

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Anyways, today I want to talk about a major factor for ruining many relationships and reputations: Rumors and people who spread them. Now this is something that literally has the power to make some one's life go from living their big dream to basically living in hell. People who were loved a lot by everyone can just become a victim of mass hate within 3 seconds of a hatepost uploaded by someone. It's actually very scary, because 90% of these rumors aren't true.
Unless you've been living under a rock or something, you've definitely had at least one rumor spread about yourself. And it doesn't just have to be about you only, it could be of you dating someone who you've just started talking to. Usually this ends up making you popular, but it isn't a good thing at all; you're teased by their name and it also could get you in trouble.
The best way to end a rumor is by acting like you're not affected at all, because usually, rumors are spread by people who love to take interest in other's lives and are very annoying, and when they realize you don't care, they'll straight up find someone else to mess with. Rumors are also spread by people who want to ruin your reputation or something, either because they're jealous, or because they want to take revenge against you. If you act like you don't care in this situation, they'll realize it's a bad idea and forget it. Also, luckily for us, rumors also don't stay for very long(unless they're true which rarely happens).
The thing is, I don't find the people who spread rumors bad, you know? Because I believe that in this world, no one is good or no one is bad. It's just people reacting in a good way or in a bad way to a situation. So I wouldn't 'blame' anyone but yeah, you can't mess with someone Else's life like that either. So if you take interest in ruining lives or just wanting to know everything about everyone, honestly there's only one thing to say: get a life. But if you plan to take revenge on someone by spreading rumors about them, then lemme tell you that isn't the best way to react to something negative from them. Best way? Talk it out! It really does work and has a better effect than telling people what they've been "doing". Also, if someone spreads stuff about you, don't take revenge by spreading stuff about them, because that's just a cheap action by them, you don't want to stoop so low, do you?

I've been noticing so much of "rumor drama" that I just wanted to talk about it. We really do need to realize that this kind of envy isn't good for us at all! The best thing would be for all of us to just drop the hate and literally, have peace with everyone around you. Gotta have the good vibes!

So that's all for now, I hope this helps someone out there! Please like,comment and share if you can so that more and more people could get to know about my blog. 

Lots and Lots of Love
Aalia Ansari