Story Time.

Hello everyone!

Welcome to Story Time with Aalia. I can't say if it's a true incident but it definitely has a lesson attached to it which I honestly feel like people should know, because these days, I have noticed, when we start liking someone, we won't just like them, we obsess over them. It's like, we forget about ourselves completely and all our emotions depend on what they do. Why do we let such people do that to us? I'm not saying that they are bad, I mean its probably a 70:30 ratio of good vs. bad. But it has happened that they didn't turn out to be good people....I've already written about that.

But this story is not just about that, there are so many emotions attached to it. To me, it's a 'one of a kind' story. So here goes..

We all know how much it sucks to be in a bus full of people we hate. That's exactly what had happened to girl, let's name her S. So, S had to move into a new bus, in the starting of a new year and as soon as she entered the bus, she realized most of the people were either very young, or she hated them. But, being the kind of person who doesn't show hatred, she decided to sit with those people. "After all, it's better than sitting alone", she thought.
Time passed and she started liking some of the people in her bus, but not all of them. Some turned out to be the opposite of what she had thought of them to be, some of them were really sweet. But some people were the same throughout, but S didn't care about that. S slowly was becoming close with a girl, who I'll name R. R was one of the people who turned out to be very different, and turns out S just thought of R like that, because she was best friends with someone who S hates. 
R was very nice to S, she even invited her for a birthday party, despite her best friend, G telling her not to. That party changed everything. S and R found a lot in common between the both of them, and they became extremely close. Both of them started trusting each other, and that is when R told S about a guy named C, whom she had just started liking. T thought of C as 'very ugly' and had no idea why she liked him so much, as their choice in guys also was quite the same. S later on kept seeing the guy around and kind of thought, "hey, this guy doesn't seem that bad". Then S decided to help R. S managed to get his pictures for her, although that made a lot of people think S likes C, and not R. S even managed to start talking to C a bit, but both of them realized that this guy may not be what R was expecting. C had no idea who R even was, as she was a very shy person in school. 
R decided to chat with C herself the next day, and they talked quite a lot when S made the mistake of pressing the call button from her own account. C realized S had called him, and blocked both of them the very next moment. R was depressed. S had no idea what to do. S was experiencing a lot of emotions that day, which she mistook for liking C. That's when the story just went downhill. 
S decided to tell R instantly, and R wasn't upset at all. Shocking, eh? Both of them ended up becoming FANGIRLS of this guy C, who still didn't actually know whats going on properly. So C unblocked R later on, and they started talking again.                 
Now the thing was, S and R were quite well known among their grades but C wasn't, as he wasn't funny and usually just walked alone. Initially, C always minded his own business and that was something that S and R liked. C also didn't know how to speak proper English, which was made fun of secretly by the new best friends, S and R. They got extremely close and they talked within themselves so much that they ditched G and a lot of other friends from their neighborhood group. It was just the 2 of them in the end.They were inseparable.
After a while, they started seeing him in school, and the fangirling was never normal:

"OMG OMG DID YOU SEE C TODAY HE LOOKS ADORABLE WITH HIS SLEEVES ROLLED UP OMG AAAAAAAA *heart eyes* HE'S SO CUTE I WANNA HUG HIM AWW"

Yup, it pretty much looked like they were talking about some celebrity.
C realized people were teasing him with S, and that a lot of S's friends started following him on social media, and that he was somewhat gaining popularity because of T. He was liking this newly found "fame", so he decided to show that he's into S as well. He gave these kind of smiles and looks, which made everyone in the grade think of both of them liking each other. This increased the rumors even more. Even though they never talked, there were still so many rumors which were enjoyed by C but not by S or any of her friends. R decided to finally tell C about her feelings, after a lot of encouragement from S. How weird.
When R finally did tell C while chatting, C rudely said "it's a no" and blocked P. She cried and almost cut herself that evening. By now, it was obvious that S and R were both emotionally dependent on C. He wasn't nice to R, when she went to talk to him in school with the help of S. Now, everyone wanted S to tell C how she felt, but S didn't have any courage at all to even say "hi" forget telling him about her feelings. She always broke down near him. It was getting worse day by day. R was slowly getting over him, but S wasn't. The only time S and C talked was after the day the 2 girls prank called him, not saying a word with a fake name. Another friend of S, who wasn't in the same school, decided to call T and ask him about S. The reply was unexpected. C said that S was his ex-girlfriend, and that she's a bitch. No one understood what was going on.
With the help of a lot of friends including R, S realized what was C's motive; to gain popularity through S. This made both of the girls get over C instantly and both of them were very happy. Both of them only had that 10% left, and everything was going great. C lost his popularity and was left alone. He didn't like that. He started asking everyone about S and even told them that they hadn't actually broken up and what not. People were starting to ask questions and this made S shout at C in front of the whole school. Everyone now knew how he was and he was left alone, yet again. 
S and R remained best friends till the end and remained stronger than ever, and C kept making news and messaging T and R , ignored by everyone. P got into another relationship which made C jealous and S started talking to and liking someone else, who C kept staring at.

THE END.

What I love about this is that although their bond had become stronger because of C, it didn't die down because they got over him, in fact it became even better. Friendship goals, right? May or may not be a true story.

I hope you like this, and thank you so much for the love on my last post. Really appreciated. 

Thank you.

Lots and Lots of Love

Aalia Ansari

P.S: Happy Birthday Ed! You deserve all the love in this world and more. I love you.

Faith in Humanity.

Hello.

Things have been going a bit over the top lately, and I don't actually know if this should be such a big deal or not, but I felt horrible I literally lost faith in humanity. I want to know if this would actually make someone lose faith in humanity or if I'm just overreacting. This may be a long post, but please do read the whole thing.Its a sincere request, thank you.

So, what happened was, this girl in my class heard me talking about this guy, who's my friend and had come to my class like once I guess and she saw us talking and stuff, and then a few days later all these teachers are asking me about him. I had absolutely no idea this would happen, because she was nice to me and I did help her quite a lot, even though I didn't actually like her, as she wasn't my friend for the right reasons. I still was nice to her, helped her and I got this in return. 
So many teachers got to know about this, and all of them were asking me and a lot of people in the school also found out. What sucks is that this isn't even true and I did get into trouble, considering the fact that dating isn't allowed in my school. First off, we aren't even dating, get that idea out of your mind and secondly, why would you spread stuff like that about someone when you don't even know what's actually going on, stop going to teachers and telling them stuff like that!
I mean what is wrong with the people in this world right now? Who just spreads stuff about someone to get revenge for something they haven't even done. I'm not spreading about you, who are you to do that about me?!
I'm really sorry, if this seems like a rant session, but I just want to get this off my mind. I asked my friends and even my mom for advice, and they told me to not give a damn about her. But being someone who really wants to understand people's mindset and wants to know how the world works, I still can't stop thinking about it and if you know why this is happening and what I can do to make it better, please do let me know. I really do need your help.
I guess it's just immaturity, that's where the topic of "change" comes in. A lot of people say that I've changed a lot over these few years, they want the 'old me' back and stuff like that which makes change seem like a negative thing, but it's not! I feel like, if you don'r change, you'll end up in a situation where you have immature dreams and plans, like bringing someone's reputation down, or becoming popular and not focus on the real issues in life. I would know, because some time ago even I wanted to become popular. Not exactly popular, but I wanted everyone to like me. I still kind of do, but now it's okay if I find out that someone hates me. But if you don't change, you'll be stuck in that mindset, and not know what the world means when they talk about handling problems. You may even not understand how serious a situation is, for you it may even be funny. That's offensive, isn't it?

But it's also important to understand, that you don't also have to change yourself from the inside, like the real you, to become a better person. Friends usually tell us to not change, this is what they mean. Some people may mean it in a negative way. but you just tell them its for the better. But remember to never change the real you on the inside, and always listen to your heart.

So that's what I had to say about this week. Yes, I have lost a lot of faith in humanity, I've learnt to never trust someone, and to not be a nice person all the time. So if you do see me acting a bit different and rude, I guess, then you know why.

PS: You don't have to believe all this completely, I'm sure there are good people out there. But take it as warning and be careful. Goodbye!

Lots and Lots of Love
Aalia Ansari

Meh.

Hi.

Things have been so boring these days. I mean what do you expect, it's exam season! This sucks. I am definitely not in the mood for studying or anything related to it whatsoever, but yet again, meh.

It's so funny because all these people who say they're gonna fail on the morning of the exam, legit get full marks or they only lose 2 marks. The least you could do is lie!
Legit 1 in 10 people will say they're gonna fail and will actually get marks that need a retest. Shoutout to them!

But anyways, is it just my life that's so boring right now, or it's just a dull phase of this year. Speaking of which, we made it through January 2017! Yay!! Hopefully this year won't suck as much as 2016. But tbh 2015 was an awesome year, but it went by way too fast. 2016 was horrible, but I didn't even realize it passing by so quickly! But I think 2017 is gonna be different. I think it's gonna be a slow year, especially after experiencing January. It was a good month for me, but wasn't it slow? I'm thinking of waiting till March ends to see how this year is gonna go. How about you? Tell me how was 2016 for you personally. I'd really appreciate it. <3

Oh and also, I finally have entered into the world of TV shows! Yes, I had never watched any show before last week. I had only watched some videos and snippets, so I knew about a lot of shows but never took out the time to watch it. But now I have started watching..... Scream Queens! I actually have been wanting to watch it for soooo long, but like I said earlier, didn't get the time. My best friend and I were chilling at her house when we finally just went on Putlocker and started watching for 4 hours straight. So yeah, it's a good show, funny and sarcastic humor, I like it, but there's A LOT OF BLOOD. I have this phobia of blood, so the murder scenes are absolutely terrifying. Please recommend some other shows to watch after finishing Scream Queens in the comments below xoxo

So yeah that's wassup in my life, please do tell me about yours. I just thought of being casual and just writing whatever comes into my brain, being very informal and all, you know? Maybe I should do this at the end of every month...

Okay so I'll see you soon. For now it's a goodbye from me!


Lots and Lots of Love
Aalia Ansari